"Let Them Be Children!"
Tom and Marc Anderson, a father and son caught up in the
world of football to the point of insanity, have no idea
that reality supercedes their vision or abilities to think
and play the sport just so! They can't conceive that they
are not the individual all-star planners and players that
will make or break a team! More importantly, they can't
conceive a relationship outside of this drive to "success"
that always hovers on the edge of violence, resulting in
buried feelings and eventually perhaps causing injuries.
And so Tom and Marc keep pushing for the higher dream! Maggie and Katie, a mother and daughter, also couldn't be
more different than Tom and Marc. For Maggie fears what
this "game" will do to the psyche of her children and has
opposite affects on both her son and daughter. Maggie
fears that such "pushing" can only be played out so far, a
type of "survival" mode. Katie is trying to be what Marc
can't seem to fulfill, and her intensity in the game,
while learned from her father, far exceeds even his high
expectations. The results could be devastating! One coach, Coach
Reynolds, basically lets both father and son have it
with "both barrels," stating they overrate themselves in
performance and original ideas for winning strategies.
Denial is huge, however! After realizing that it really isn't just a "game," the
self-propelled looming disaster seems avoidable. But the
truth really hasn't quite sunk into Tom Anderson's psyche! What, if anything, will free this family from the adult
game of sports? What does it take to be a rising star and
just how much effort should be expended on such a goal?
What's the cost? Who will fight for the protection and
integrity of these star players? These questions lurk
behind and under the scene of every sports field where one
finds parents screaming and screeching, bellowing, and
cursing their children toward a victory! Donald W.
Albertson has written a potent novel about the reality of
just what is happening in the hearts, minds, and spirits
of both players and families who cannot face failure
of "the game." Read it and call it as it really exists;
but even more, read it and learn from it -- before it is
too late! It's just a game, isn't it? So very well done, Donald W.
Albertson! Reviewed by Viviane Crystal on March 30, 2006
Reviewed by Viviane Crystal
Courtesy Crystal Reviews
Posted July 9, 2006
SummaryWhat can drive a parent to sports rage?
The Adult Game of Youth Sports
Into this maelstrom hurls the Anderson family. Tom
Anderson is an obsessed sports parent who lost out on his
chance for football glory. He seeks redemption through his
twelve-year-old son, Marc, whom he believes is the best
youth quarterback in New Jersey. To stay ahead of the
pack, Tom designs a demanding four-hour a day training
program for Marc. While some would call this abusive, Tom
believes he is doing all a father can do to prepare his
son for the fiercely competitive world of professional
sports.
Tom's wife, Maggie, disagrees. She wants her children to
just be children, and desperately tries to hold on to her
daughter, Katie. But Katie has other plans. She is a
natural born athlete, and has talent that her brother
would kill to have. But Marc has something that Katie
desperately wants more than a life in sports: the love and
attention of their father, and she will not be denied....
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